I got a warning and the lack of communication is unacceptable.

[LianaThorne]

Yeah i know, having fun and jesting and being friendly with people in a video game is bad

How dare I, I should just log on and not speak to anyone unless I read something i dont like and blow it up seems to be what the kids do these days.

What's funny to you may not be to someone else. That's the risk you take by saying/doing things that can come off as negative (like squatting on people after they died). Just be respectful/show good sportsmanship with people that you don't know and keep the rest to people that you know are fine with it (like those in your friend group). Otherwise, it's your own fault if you get reported cause we both know the behavior you're describing isn't friendly.