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    Quote Originally Posted by whitemoonflower View Post
    I wouldn’t call it pleasant. But you’ve gone from, “Everyone here will attack you if you defend Venat,” to “Everyone who discusses lore should be avoided.” From extreme to extreme. A differing opinion doesn’t immediately equate to “attacking” someone. Venat is a character. Regardless of how we perceive how she was written/rewritten, we can still be respectful about it.
    They may be extreme but they're grounded in things seen often here. Expressing you like aspects of the game that the loud folks here hate is a quick way to get you crapped on. Or folks will just call your standards low or accuse you of holding the game back. Respect on these forums only seems to come when you agree with folks about what they dislike.

    Just saying...anhaato is a prime contender for what I'm talking about, yet you don't see anyone who shares his thoughts calling him out for being toxic and disrespectful. I can only think of one reason why.
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    Quote Originally Posted by IkaraGreydancer View Post
    They may be extreme but they're grounded in things seen often here. Expressing you like aspects of the game that the loud folks here hate is a quick way to get you crapped on. Or folks will just call your standards low or accuse you of holding the game back. Respect on these forums only seems to come when you agree with folks about what they dislike.

    Just saying...anhaato is a prime contender for what I'm talking about, yet you don't see anyone who shares his thoughts calling him out for being toxic and disrespectful. I can only think of one reason why.
    This is basically it. It's not a matter of "I disliked X or Y and here is my reasoning" and keeping it centered around themselves. It's "I don't like this and YOU shouldn't either and you're low or base or uncultured or don't care about the game if you don't feel the same". That's not debating in good faith. That's just trying to ram your personal opinion down other people's throats.
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    It's quite fascinating that a poster who referred to people wanting consequences in the story as 'psychopaths' and another who branded a certain female miqo'te to be a 'parasite' are pretending to be so hard done by.
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    Quote Originally Posted by IkaraGreydancer View Post
    They may be extreme but they're grounded in things seen often here. Expressing you like aspects of the game that the loud folks here hate is a quick way to get you crapped on. Or folks will just call your standards low or accuse you of holding the game back. Respect on these forums only seems to come when you agree with folks about what they dislike.

    Just saying...anhaato is a prime contender for what I'm talking about, yet you don't see anyone who shares his thoughts calling him out for being toxic and disrespectful. I can only think of one reason why.
    Oh I didn't even realize you namedropped me here, I just immediately scroll past your posts as soon as I see your icon. My response is; get out of the kitchen if you can't take the heat. Don't talk shit if you don't want the smoke. Joking ways of saying this aside, you cannot seriously expect to be treated with respect after you display a clear lack thereof in my direction from the jump. Or, let me guess, it's only ok for the superior story enjoyers to act in such a way to the inferior story haters?
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    Quote Originally Posted by anhaato View Post
    Oh I didn't even realize you namedropped me here, I just immediately scroll past your posts as soon as I see your icon. My response is; get out of the kitchen if you can't take the heat. Don't talk shit if you don't want the smoke. Joking ways of saying this aside, you cannot seriously expect to be treated with respect after you display a clear lack thereof in my direction from the jump. Or, let me guess, it's only ok for the superior story enjoyers to act in such a way to the inferior story haters?
    When did I talk shit though? You throw smoke at dang near EVERYONE who disagrees with you whether they're being respectful or not. Lets be real here. You continue to do this because as ive already said folks here co sign and agree with you. Folks calling people "ill equipped and uneducated" doesn't help worth anything but that stuff is immediately called out and piled on, yet the same isn't done on the ther side. Im not the only one to notice this.

    Also where did I claim or even infer story enjoyers are superior and story dislikers are inferior? I'm not the one telling folks if they don't like the story they have crap tastes like others have said about story enjoyers. Your guess has no foundation.
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    Quote Originally Posted by IkaraGreydancer View Post
    When did I talk shit though? You throw smoke at dang near EVERYONE who disagrees with you whether they're being respectful or not. Lets be real here. You continue to do this because as ive already said folks here co sign and agree with you. Folks calling people "ill equipped and uneducated" doesn't help worth anything but that stuff is immediately called out and piled on, yet the same isn't done on the ther side. Im not the only one to notice this.

    Also where did I claim or even infer story enjoyers are superior and story dislikers are inferior? I'm not the one telling folks if they don't like the story they have crap tastes like others have said about story enjoyers. Your guess has no foundation.
    I was talking about the person who was calling me uneducated, not you. But if you are here refusing to call out that sort of behavior on your own side, then your complaints about no one on my side calling me out ring hollow. I respond respectfully to people who speak respectfully to me, unfortunately people are rarely that. Just look through this thread and you'll see nothing but shade.
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    Quote Originally Posted by anhaato View Post
    I was talking about the person who was calling me uneducated, not you. But if you are here refusing to call out that sort of behavior on your own side, then your complaints about no one on my side calling me out ring hollow. I respond respectfully to people who speak respectfully to me, unfortunately people are rarely that. Just look through this thread and you'll see nothing but shade.
    I did say calling people uneducated n such is wrong, yet folks have already gotten on him for that. Dude doesn't need person number 6 to tell him to chill tf out (not unless he keeps it up ofc). And let's say folks are indeed being disrespectful. What is gained from being the same way back? (and I say this as someone who falls short of this at times as well). Being toxic to toxicity only breeds more toxicity. It's clear there's split here between the sides. It's just from my view certain things get passes on particular sides while others don't. That's only an opinion. Same with your view
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