I'm an ex WoW player, although i stopped at the end of MOP and did my part in raids an whatnot as a fury/tank warrior and enjoyed it very much. I tanked in dungeons and was second tank when needed in the raid. I wasn't the best player but good enough to do the content

I came to FFXIV to see what all the fuss was about and i must say that the story and questing is good but my experience took a turn for the worse once i started doing dungeons. The lower lvl ones were a disaster for the caster i now am. Due to the vety limited instant abilities i have i mostly tagged along during thrash phases and then some dps on the boss. But suddenly at like lvl 30-40 the bosses have insta kill abilities and whatnot so you try to dps on the boss half looking at your spells your still learning and half looking at no standing in shit or the wrong place but still dying of something you didn"t see coming. My record is like 8 deaths in one run but that was also partly because of the tank we had that didn't clear the trash next to the eather portal you need to take to get back when you die. Now i"m almost lvl 60 and it gets worse and worse. Some bosses do constant aoe all over the room so you get confused as to were to run too to avoid it and even if you walk out of it in time you still get hit ???? It's like you enter a war zone to end up with ptsd. Also there is so much light and sound show of spells you don't jnow what are yours and what are the bosses ones. Also everyone seems in some jind if rush not even taking time to look at the loot. Got outrunned many times and had to portal in boss zone very iften cause they already started in the boss while u wan't there yet. So now i guess i will do the strictly minimum of dungeons to advance in the questline and do other stuff to enjoy myself like crafting, events and making money etc... As i am a sum/sch i was thinking about being a healer for a while but seeing how i cope with being a dps, i certainly will never go heal.