hi so a bit of context, i transfered from a EU DC to a JP DC few month ago, because i moved in japan for works reason anyway,
i love doing savage and ex trial, but while being in japan playing on a EU DC with 300 ping is ... try dodging a aoe with up to 2 seconds delay in savage ... yeah... so made the decision 2 month ago to move over in a JP DC,
ok so i can indeed speak japanese but not read or write (using romaji)
so here is the part you wanna hear

i am having the absolute WORST time ever in my years of playing ff14 ...
(regarding savage, trials, ultimate)
between the "JP only" or direct insta kick without even talking, or even straight up ignoring my "sugestion" or again if joining a grp farm, where all of us 8 ppl suposed to get a mount, and with bad luck im the last but, nop party straight up disband no question asked about if i still need it or not ...

how do you ppl that play in a JP DC manage to do hard content ? when you dont know/knew anybody ?