There's what you say and then there's the reality I actually experienced ingame.
If it's doable the amount of time and effort is not within reason. And it doesn't help that most of the people who I join with via que just abandon instantly citing "not enough ppl to do this

".
I also said there are no party finder groups for this on my server and my attempts to start my own have not gone anywhere, somethhing people in this thread ALSO did not read me say. I am starting to think some of you are delibrately misinterpeting my words to claim false righteousness over me rather than admit I have a point that contradicts the viewpoint you are trying to force.
In other words, a bad faith argument.
How about this: mention "lost actions" or "it's doable with 2 people" or "use discord" and I will just
put you on my blacklist. I will not respond to anyone making these arguments going forward. Come up with a new argument, prove that it's doable (within reason) yourself, concede that I'm right about this being something that needs serious changing, or stop responding to me. I'm not wasting my time arguing bad faith talking points anymore.