They Should Add An Official Damage Meter With One Condition

[Rilifane]

Well that kind of attitude is pretty much why Yoshi does not want to add official parsers in game. If people respond like this without one added, imagine if it was added...

Except that there is nothing wrong with declining someone's application for your static if their logs clearly show that they don't meet the static's expecations. Nobody is entitled to a spot in a static just because they applied and it's well within the static leader's right to decline people based on whatever criteria they deem fit. Even if it's some as arbitrary as wanting a Hroth only static.
Nor is there anything wrong with disbanding a party or kicking the person that is holding a party back with their performance when they can't reach enrage despite nobody dying because believe it or not, nobody is entitled to other sticking with them in a party if they can't perform properly for the content they're doing.

And there are enough people out there who use the ToS as a shield while being passive-aggressive. It absolutely happens and it is the most common form of toxicity in FFXIV.
I don't think that anyone should perform at their best in DF content of all things and I rarely see the extreme cases of someone being auto attack afk, not healing nor dpsing, not using aoe at all etc. but preferring to run with friends instead of trying their luck with DF is also -again- completely within their rights.
Because isn't that exactly what people that like to contribute more always get told when this comes up? "Then just run in your uber premade"?

So why is it something negative if people get declined a static spot or kicked from a party because they are not performing at a level the content requires?
Why is it something negative that someone prefers to use DF only in (partly) premades because they don't want to deal with too much randomness in terms of gameplay?
Yes, it could've been worded differently. Point still stands: it's within their rights. Their party/ static/ premade, their rules.

Being informed =/= Being toxic. There's no part of being an ass, even, that's facilitated or encouraged by having a better grasp of the situation.

And people like to ignore that lack of informations causes finger-pointing in the entirely wrong direction while the person getting accused is completely defenseless against that. Having to leave isn't a defense by the way.
Just from last week of PF'ing (had my clears, just wanted to kill stuff for fun and help parties get their clears as well) I have two examples of this happening and in both cases it ended up with the party disbanding because it was impossible to shut the people up that blamed the wrong person and nobody wanted to stay in a party when they got wrongly accused of something either.