Thx for the advice Estellios, will try that soon if all else fails >.<

Well, I'm not sure Soukyuu, I'm used to entering MMOs then seeing a lot of people chat (especially the usual trolls), and I haven't seen a person talk yet, and I've been playing for like 3-4 days already. I made sure i picked a really populated server from the list when i started... I randomly partied with some guy and he wasnt uttering a word to me even though I was trying to communicate with him...