I don't care what your sex is in real life, I am going to use the respective pronouns based on the sex of your character to refer to your character. If you don't want to be referred to as she, her, hers, then I suggest you play male. If you play a male and want to be referred to as she, her, hers, then I strongly suggest you play a female avatar.

In all honesty, this crap has got to stop and has gotten way out of control. I get steamed every time I think about all the time the devs have wasted going back and redesigning existing outfits to accommodate both genders. All to appease such a small group of people who want to make their avatars look ridiculous.