just curious... since you obviously have reasoned all this out. Who was saying all these glowing things about the ancients? They were happy, they were perfect, they were godlike.... you did notice that was the unsundered remnants... untold THOUSANDS of years removed from their society? Thew remnants that went through the catastrophic end of their very world?
if nothing else it is a very fitting, I thought, view of a origin world/society that the Ascians were trying to bring back, in their flawed utopian vision. naturally they would say and believe it was perfect, it was one way to justify what they were trying to do, because it was "better"
it shows nothing else that a caricature of humanity as we sit. the past is always generally rose coloured. the game was better, there were no jerks, bots were unheard of etc.. the same thing goes on, and you dont need a game to tell you that. the 50's and 60's were better... people were friendlier, kids were safe.. you left your doors unlocked.. blah blah blah...
the world of the ancient Ascians in was never said they were emotionless.. but it seemed they were more like Vulcans in Star Trek... lack of emotions was a facade, hidden behind a mask. since ancient or not, they were seemingly human... I believe the point was they were just as flawed as we are today, both in game as as real humans.