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  1. #1
    Player
    Vencio's Avatar
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    Character
    Vencio Luirex
    World
    Faerie
    Main Class
    Paladin Lv 100
    Ask yourself this;

    What am I seeking out of an FC? Are you looking for a social one?

    Experiences varies greatly from individuals & don’t discourage yourself from showing adamancy about FCs in general regardless anyone’s point of view.

    I will tell you this though…FCs may be a source of community, social interaction & deliver profound wonders for whatever that FCs motto/goals/self proclaim approaches are,

    In my experience I’ve stopped joining FCs seeing how easily drama ensues, clique-culture, reinforcing some unusual aspects which shouldn’t be & ultimately you’ll get a sense of who your real in-game friends are vs. FC friends.

    I no longer buy the coin term “Social friendly, LGBTQ+, Static, family, casual” that’s so common to see in shouts…to me it’s all the same bullshit, and quite often contradicting.

    Just trust your own judgement & don’t let FC boundaries make you feel like an outcast, rather be open to anyone for friendship regardless of affiliation. Trust me, your gaming experience is worth more & cannot be bargained nor taken away except you discarding it away.

    PS: If you’re seeking for static try the party finders, they’re all individuals from different FCs & still perform as much
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    NyteKitsune's Avatar
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    Nov 2014
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    New Gridania
    Posts
    65
    Character
    Nyte Kitsune
    World
    Hyperion
    Main Class
    Dragoon Lv 80
    Finding a FC thats a good fit for you is always tough. I have gone thru 3, First one pretty much disbanded after ARR-partway thru HW on Famfrit, Second one became toxic (also Famfrit), Created an alt character on Hyperion and joined my now current FC which ended up being a good move as they are flexible on when people want to do things (We use Discord to schedule events and such). The real bonus to my current FC (Mystic Phoenix) was that when I joined, unbeknownst to me, another member was actually a friend from another game I played years and years ago and reconnected with him in the FC.

    Remember when joining a FC, though you may feel like an outsider sometimes you just need to speak up and get to know the people in your FC, if when talking with them you find they don't really "Fit" you you can always look for another FC, but just to stay cordial, I would thank them for having you before leaving, unless it was one of those FC that just randomly invites you out of the blue, no conversation, just trying to fill their roster. I would either apply to one, or wait for someone to actually approach you and actually speak with you, not just send you a random invite, which was the case with my FC, they spoke to me and after a brief conversation i joined them.. Best move I made, though costly as I did have to pay to transfer my character from Famfrit to Hyperion, but it was worth it for this FC.
    (1)
    "Nose to the wind, I go."

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    Lunalepsy's Avatar
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    Mar 2016
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    Character
    Yxiah Eruyt
    World
    Balmung
    Main Class
    Red Mage Lv 90
    Quote Originally Posted by Velvet_Lunarfang View Post
    I joined a FC a couple weeks ago when I transferred to Hyperion. Sadly my schedule doesn't usually meet with any of their events and I can never attend any savage raiding. I am thinking of leaving this FC and go solo until I can find one where meets my time schedule
    When you feel like a number and not like a person enjoying the game.
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    Player RitsukoSonoda's Avatar
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    Kugane (No that red crayon is totally legitimate) >.>
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    3,146
    Character
    Ritsuko Sonoda
    World
    Ultros
    Main Class
    Samurai Lv 90
    Quote Originally Posted by Lunalepsy View Post
    When you feel like a number and not like a person enjoying the game.
    But aren't you a number when using the title of "Zero"?
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    sagacious's Avatar
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    Apr 2022
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    Character
    Sage Cologne
    World
    Ravana
    Main Class
    Culinarian Lv 100
    Quote Originally Posted by Velvet_Lunarfang View Post
    I joined a FC a couple weeks ago when I transferred to Hyperion. Sadly my schedule doesn't usually meet with any of their events and I can never attend any savage raiding. I am thinking of leaving this FC and go solo until I can find one where meets my time schedule
    I joined an FC when I needed the buffs they provide. When I got leveled up enough I made crafters/gatherers and when the buffs they provided didn't match what I needed I made my own FC and I am sure glad I did. My new Fc lost to a zero but was the only bid on a mansion. Quitting my Fc enabled me to get into position to get my own mansion.
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    sagacious

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    ZerefDragonslayer's Avatar
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    Jun 2019
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    Character
    Zeref Dragonslayer
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    Louisoix
    Main Class
    Thaumaturge Lv 70
    Are you also gonna ask us when to change your underwear? Why is this even a question? Its not like leaving your University. Leave or don't whenever you want lol
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    sagacious's Avatar
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    Apr 2022
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    Character
    Sage Cologne
    World
    Ravana
    Main Class
    Culinarian Lv 100
    Quote Originally Posted by ZerefDragonslayer View Post
    Are you also gonna ask us when to change your underwear? Why is this even a question? Its not like leaving your University. Leave or don't whenever you want lol
    Awwww why be mean? All questions should be answered in a respectful and meaningful way. Have empathy for your fellow man/woman ....
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    sagacious

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    Kolsykol's Avatar
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    Character
    Aelona Chillwind
    World
    Lich
    Main Class
    Ninja Lv 100
    Quote Originally Posted by Velvet_Lunarfang View Post
    Yeah when I log in I rarely get noticed then other people and just feel like a outsider sometimes
    I kinda feel this way too especially since most of the time you already have a circle who is already friends sorta being the most active and running the FC and know each other since before, I think this is fairly normal really tho.
    Obviously there's degrees to this tho, if they're being rude or something then there's a problem.
    But just like irl if you have a group of people who are already friends and then you try and hangout with them then you're going to feel like an outsider sorta intruding.
    I don't think that changing FC is going to change this really.
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    Shibi's Avatar
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    Lala Felon
    World
    Zurvan
    Main Class
    Gunbreaker Lv 80
    Quote Originally Posted by Velvet_Lunarfang View Post
    I joined a FC a couple weeks ago when I transferred to Hyperion. Sadly my schedule doesn't usually meet with any of their events and I can never attend any savage raiding. I am thinking of leaving this FC and go solo until I can find one where meets my time schedule
    Good luck in your search!

    But please do consider that raiding and FC don't need to go together, and in fact are probably best separated. FC for social and a static for raiding. Then drama won't cross between the two.
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    Last edited by Shibi; 05-01-2022 at 09:29 AM.
    やはり、お前は……笑顔が……イイ

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    DixieBellOCE's Avatar
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    Limsa Lominsa
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    Character
    Playful Kitten
    World
    Ravana
    Main Class
    Dancer Lv 100
    Whenever you want.

    If you don't feel welcome, just leave and find another FC that has active players that do the things you like.
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