Wrong. Cuz that turn may or may not come for anyone up to 6 months to a year specially on Kings. The system doesn't need to be changed. Dont wanna see anymore big player zerg shells getting all the fun and kills. I had to suffer a year of that until I got sick of it and transferred once the service came about. And yes the zerg ls would have multiple hnms camped, with 1-2 groups each sometimes, and at least ten of them using a bot.
That was because of SE's retarded HNM claiming and respawn system, I wouldn't so much blame it on the community since that was a product of FFXI's design. Leaving a holding party out there for mobs like Khimaira and Tiamat was pretty much essential since they took anywhere from 3-5 days to respawn, and I wouldn't expect anyone in their right mind to expect a whole 18 man alliance to wait that amount of time. Holding parties were a necessity. Botting is a different story, but that is going to happen regardless.

And I think being able to invite people mid-fight is really needed most importantly because people do disconnect, it happens. When you're low-manning NMs one person disconnecting can mean the entire fight.

Plus with such shorter rage timers and respawn times is holding NMs really an issue?