Same here, after perusing this forum for quite some time its been clear to me that the feedback within this game has been...disjointed. YT, Reddit and Twitter paints FFXIV a different picture (mostly of big time content creators loving this game), but all this time it seems that many issues have been left in the gutter for such a long time. Once when I came to this game during Shadowbringers I was joyful and praising at how fun the jobs play out for an MMO, especially on controller but turns out people dislike how the jobs "devolve" in their eyes so makes me think "I'M the problem".

Yeah I wish the devs would give out a survey or at least address where they're getting their feedback from.