Welcome!

I'm new to the game too (started proper in December). I'll admit that I have, and do, struggle with some elements of the gameplay myself. I don't really have much talent for gaming and my reaction times and hand-eye coordination are, shall we say, lacking which causes me problems sometimes.

However, I will say that despite these (personal) challenges, the story FFXIV is telling has kept me hooked. It has been an emotional rollercoaster that I didn't expect, but keeps me coming back for more.

And agreed - the community have been incredible too. From the forum, where have received plenty of advice, encouragement and support via a thread I started when I've hit obstacles/brick walls, to those players in-game who, unlike some MMOs, are really supportive, tolerant and patient toward new players.

I'd encourage you to stay the course - there is more to like than there is to dislike, and not sure where you are in the game's story - but it only (in my opinion) gets better!