Well, this is the behavior the game is asking. Born knowing, have the right class/job and the needed e-peens or GTFO.

That's what you get when you have a game strictly based on the self-called HC players' needs.

Still, you shouldn't be posting this here...it will make you look non-pro. =P But seriously, it's not your fault in having a friendly attitude to try and optimize your role. If someone really think that all WHMs should be spamming protect and SS everytime they are close to wear off instead of settling things, this is, at very least, concerning.