Warning for "Grief" Tactics?!

[SturmChurro]

RDM is a good choice, being a dps is less likely to get into argument with other player or DPS role is more “invisible” in general.

I certainly found it less stressful to play DPS than heal and tank. I tend to gear one job in each role, for a change when I get bored or when I am tired and brain not working.

I have literally played RDM for years, it's not even a matter of choice. RDM has been my main DPS since the start of ShB. I played it more often prior to the expac, because I had equivalent gear. Without a proper weapon, my DPS would be lower than it should be. This means six more weeks, until I can actually play RDM. I typically tank dungeons, DPS when bored, but otherwise I heal.

I genuinely think it would be a good idea to try a DPS job for a while. Id suggest something like black mage or samurai as opposed to red mage though. Red mages have a raise and even a small heal and it sounds like you may want to avoid situations where you might be expected to help others.

If somebody actually wanted me to do something, this sure isn't the way to do it. This sort of comment usually has the opposite opposite effect on somebody like me.