Warning for "Grief" Tactics?!

[lalin]

i agree not knowing what you did wrong is such an absurd thing ,i don't understand what's the point in hiding it and i hate the way they handle it . if i am going to report someone for something serious is not good enough for me to just ban them i would like them to know why i reported them , same goes to me .

[Sarnai]

The dungeon was the 79 one. I did that gigantic pull at first, and we did fine, great even. If I had actually intended on griefing players with no tank stance, that would have been the pull to do it on, but no.. I lost my tank stance on the pull of 4 enemies (3 dogs and a wall). The ones after the first boss (who I dced during). If this dungeon is truly what got me a warning for "griefing", it's tragic.

It may bot even be that dungeon, it might've been something you did past month or past year.

[Rowde]

"I swear I didn't do this" should convince you

For now it's just a guess on every side, nobody knows what exactly got you this warning and be it recent dungeon or something from a year ago. My friend got reported over "emote spamming" in Eulmore 2 years ago, when we were just /splash'ing each other and gor a warning over that, there are all types of petty people out there.

People usually get in trouble for this if they haven't clicked the setting to not write the emote in the chat log option.

Alternatively, if the word motion is written after the emote it doesn't write to the log either. example: '/splash motion'

[Misutoraru]

LOL yes... It is totally only because you have unpopular opinions. Not for any other reason. You are such an angel.

Reading all 13 pages
It is only OP side, really difficult to tell what is the cause of warning

DC, dropping tank stance even refusing to perform the role as a healer seem unlikely to get a warning. I believe if the warning to be warrant there must be something on top of DC/dropping tank stance/not reviving, something in verbal argument or at least swearing
Yet, only OP and the GM involve will know the true cause

[Sarnai]

People usually get in trouble for this if they haven't clicked the setting to not write the emote in the chat log option.

Alternatively, if the word motion is written after the emote it doesn't write to the log either. example: '/splash motion'

Yeah I know, but we honestly learned about that box only when GM told her lol

[Senn]

It's time for the FFXIV communities favorite activity: weirdly aggressive victim blaming!

Unstable person melts down because you try to discuss a mistake in a savage PF? It's your fault.

Getting stalked? It's your fault.

Harassed? It's your fault.

Warned or banned unfairly? It's your fault!

You're assuming they are a victim, but no one here would know if they were or weren't for certain.
I can't really blame people being skeptical about OP's story considering their post history, and that there might be other reasons the situation played out the way that it did.
Of course getting stalked, harassed, and sending death threats is wrong and should never happen. That we can agree on.
I remember a little while ago, someone from the forum was being blasted on twitter because they made some comments on female glamour. Some of those twitter users said they were going to find him in game just to bother him. I found that kind of behavior pretty appaling, even if I didn't agree with the guy's post.

[Padudu]

It's time for the FFXIV communities favorite activity: weirdly aggressive victim blaming!

Idk I feel like the OP would get more sympathy if they weren't going, "I did nothing wrong and it was the SNOWFLAKES who reported me."

[Senn]

Idk I feel like the OP would get more sympathy if they weren't going, "I did nothing wrong and it was the SNOWFLAKES who reported me."

That and a history of backhanded mockery and disingenuous comments doesn't help. As well as their self proclaimed trolling.
You kind of remember these things when you're on the recieving end of it.

[LittleImp]

You're assuming they are a victim, but no one here would know if they were or weren't for certain.
I can't really blame people being skeptical about OP's story considering their post history, and that there might be other reasons the situation played out the way that it did.

We don't know the full story, this much is true.

But there's a huge difference between genuine skepticism, and coming into the thread and just insulting the OP while pretending to be skeptical. A lot of people aren't even entertaining their side of the story, and are just assuming they've done something wrong while making disparaging comments about their character.

[Moonsprite]

As far as tank stance is concerned, if you level sync it turns it off. This includes getting d/c in a dungeon and logging back in when it syncs you upon return.