Warning for "Grief" Tactics?!

[SaberMaxwell]

Sounds an awful lot like Fear mongering.

Especially since it was just a warning that they got and they are super defensive about it.

Just dont be overly vulgar/perverted/hostile everywhere and you'll be fine.

If the story is to be believed, they didn't use the chat box whatsoever. But sure, it's always "just don't be a meanie" as though authorities are infallible.

[Cheremia]

If the story is to be believed, they didn't use the chat box whatsoever. But sure, it's always "just don't be a meanie" as though authorities are infallible.

DCed, turned tank stance off by accident, got HOUNDED by the party. Thats at least how i read it.

I mean i get screamed at and i do mention it too if people forget tankstance. They/I turn it on and literally go "oops i forgot" if they had it on at the start in a dungeon that doesnt sync them down levels. They/me also go "oops i forgot" if the dungeon DOES sync them down, also auto turn stance off.
And then everybody laughs because yeah, stupid that it does that, haha. And moves on.

So if the party really was THAT hostile towards them, then the party will also get a warning because guess what? If they were the, excuse the language, assholes, then they were wrong.
If they were just quietly sitting there, getting mobbed to hell and back for tank stance or whatever it was, then the party did the warnable thing.
GMS can see what was going on and yes, you should know WHAT it was (i agree that they should tell you) but i doubt you get the warning if you just sit quietly there in an "abusive" party and then leave said "abusive" party.