Warning for "Grief" Tactics?!

[IckeDerTyp]

"[...] I am sick and tired of many in this community whining about anything and everything, just because they don't get coddled or for some other apparent slight. SO sick of it [...]

And here you are, whining. Oh the irony~

Honestly tho, reason is phrased weirdly but am sure the grief part gives us a hint as to what you're up to!

That and your post of course.

Relax my friend, noobs aren't the end of the world and sometimes, you just have to leave em be so they figure stuff out by themselves.

Tho am just guessing but it'd be news to me that someone friendly gets banned for anything related to grief.

So if ya care, I'd say think back a little and I'm sure you can find out what ya did wrong, eh?

Anyway, it's just one warning, so I'd wager you'll be fine.

[Beytran70]

Some of you guys are weird.

[Kaurhz]

What I don't get is why wasn't the first course of action to try and appeal the result instead of coming on here complaining and then going into several threads under the troupe of "Can't beat 'em, Join 'em". If you can't dispute it, or if it gets rejected then probably time to face the cruel reality that you definitely indeed did do something that would arguably constitute as not adhering to to ToS.

[LittleImp]

It's time for the FFXIV communities favorite activity: weirdly aggressive victim blaming!

Unstable person melts down because you try to discuss a mistake in a savage PF? It's your fault.

Getting stalked? It's your fault.

Harassed? It's your fault.

Warned or banned unfairly? It's your fault!

After all, the GMs are perfect and never, EVER make mistakes. (Except for when it comes to RP venues apparently, then the GMs are evil cartoon villains who should be fired from their jobs and lose their income.)

It's not like there's a long history of extremely dubious warnings and bans handed out on this game or anything. But hey, this is the same forum where people were trying to lowkey justify someone receiving death threats over a bad review of the game.

[Padudu]

It's time for the FFXIV communities favorite activity: weirdly aggressive victim blaming!

Idk I feel like the OP would get more sympathy if they weren't going, "I did nothing wrong and it was the SNOWFLAKES who reported me."

[Senn]

Idk I feel like the OP would get more sympathy if they weren't going, "I did nothing wrong and it was the SNOWFLAKES who reported me."

That and a history of backhanded mockery and disingenuous comments doesn't help. As well as their self proclaimed trolling.
You kind of remember these things when you're on the recieving end of it.

[lalin]

i agree not knowing what you did wrong is such an absurd thing ,i don't understand what's the point in hiding it and i hate the way they handle it . if i am going to report someone for something serious is not good enough for me to just ban them i would like them to know why i reported them , same goes to me .

[Misutoraru]

LOL yes... It is totally only because you have unpopular opinions. Not for any other reason. You are such an angel.

Reading all 13 pages
It is only OP side, really difficult to tell what is the cause of warning

DC, dropping tank stance even refusing to perform the role as a healer seem unlikely to get a warning. I believe if the warning to be warrant there must be something on top of DC/dropping tank stance/not reviving, something in verbal argument or at least swearing
Yet, only OP and the GM involve will know the true cause

[Senn]

It's time for the FFXIV communities favorite activity: weirdly aggressive victim blaming!

Unstable person melts down because you try to discuss a mistake in a savage PF? It's your fault.

Getting stalked? It's your fault.

Harassed? It's your fault.

Warned or banned unfairly? It's your fault!

You're assuming they are a victim, but no one here would know if they were or weren't for certain.
I can't really blame people being skeptical about OP's story considering their post history, and that there might be other reasons the situation played out the way that it did.
Of course getting stalked, harassed, and sending death threats is wrong and should never happen. That we can agree on.
I remember a little while ago, someone from the forum was being blasted on twitter because they made some comments on female glamour. Some of those twitter users said they were going to find him in game just to bother him. I found that kind of behavior pretty appaling, even if I didn't agree with the guy's post.

[LittleImp]

You're assuming they are a victim, but no one here would know if they were or weren't for certain.
I can't really blame people being skeptical about OP's story considering their post history, and that there might be other reasons the situation played out the way that it did.

We don't know the full story, this much is true.

But there's a huge difference between genuine skepticism, and coming into the thread and just insulting the OP while pretending to be skeptical. A lot of people aren't even entertaining their side of the story, and are just assuming they've done something wrong while making disparaging comments about their character.