Marriage Partner Hookup Megathread! v2

[Bunnycake]

Server: Hyperion
Willing to transfer? Nein, got a medium~!
Personal Interests: For gaming it's MMORPG and fighting. In person is..well better to ask in game.
Play schedule: 4pm til probably midnight PDT.
What kind of gamer are you: MMORPG very casual but fighting games very hardcore.
Character Gender: Man
Do you care if the player in real life is not the same gender as their character? Yeah, would prefer women companionships.
Character Race: Viera
Preferred Race: Any
Main class?: BLM and RPR as a backup.
Dislikes: People wasting my time on something that wasn't going to happen.
Goals for the game: Erm, not sure really.
Goals for the marriage union: Wedding glamour and I suppose the two seater mount.
Discord: sleepybunny#1150. Also a NA player.

[Leifei]

Server: Ultros

Willing to transfer? Probably not. I have a house and would prefer to keep it. If the connection was strong enough, I could reconsider this stance in the future, but not in the short term.

Personal Interests: FFXIV, Basketball, Umbreon, Hiking, Theme Parks, Traveling, Reading, my puppy dog, etc.

Play schedule: It's all over the place and I basically have played at most hours of the day - I don't do mornings. But I do love late nights (I mean LATE nights).

What kind of gamer are you: Whatever kind my schedule allows, I guess. But I've been everything from super casual to chasing world firsts.

Character Gender: Female (Female IRL)

Do you care if the player in real life is not the same gender as their character? It's not a deal breaker, but I also kind of prefer it.

Character Race: Miqo'te

Preferred Race: Whatever makes you happy (I may judge you for funsies though)

Main class?: WHM

Dislikes: Liars, mean people, flakey people (all I mean is don't make plans if you can't be there!), stubborn people, people who take life too seriously.

Things I enjoy doing in the game: I do it all. I know, that feels like a cop out, but, no, I legit do everything. Want to do maps? Grind fates? Level? PVP? Go to an RP venue? Do EX trials? Do Savage raids? Sure. I've done all of those this year. The one exception is I haven't ever stepped foot in an Ultimate, but if you have a good group of people to do it with? I feel confident I can learn and be a valuable asset there too.

Goals for the marriage union: Baseline, I'd like to make a connection with someone fun to play with. Someone to adventure through Eorzea with. If more comes of it? Why not? Finding the right person who shares my passion is great.

Etc: I'm in my 30s, I'd much prefer someone similar in that regard. I'm a flight attendant, some days I may not have time to play, but I still play quite a bit. I live in the US, I'm not overly attached to my home and moving isn't out of the realm of possibility for the right person. I consider myself pansexual, if that word makes you irrationally mad, we'd probably not get along. I'm an open book for questions and adventure, so try me! Krose13#1178

You seem pretty awesome. I bet you'll find someone on here in no time.

[Lisana13]

You seem pretty awesome. I bet you'll find someone on here in no time.

Eh, I'm just a person. But people have weird expectations.

Example: Today, someone added me (nearly a month after my post) on Discord in the middle of a work day, then got mad because I didn't give them a reply before the evening. And added a veiled shot at this somehow making me flakey. If not replying during a work day makes someone unreliable, most people probably are.

All in all, this isn't the best place to find people.

[Leifei]

Eh, I'm just a person. But people have weird expectations.

Example: Today, someone added me (nearly a month after my post) on Discord in the middle of a work day, then got mad because I didn't give them a reply before the evening. And added a veiled shot at this somehow making me flakey. If not replying during a work day makes someone unreliable, most people probably are.

All in all, this isn't the best place to find people.

Haha, well the good news is that person showed you one of their red flags early on instead of later.

[UnrealTai]

Eh, I'm just a person. But people have weird expectations.

Example: Today, someone added me (nearly a month after my post) on Discord in the middle of a work day, then got mad because I didn't give them a reply before the evening. And added a veiled shot at this somehow making me flakey. If not replying during a work day makes someone unreliable, most people probably are.

All in all, this isn't the best place to find people.

Definitely not lol.
I play with my fiance a lot but we met at work.

I've been in small FCs large FCs the works and EVERY relationship I've seen people start in this game, end, in this game. Even the ones that move in together eventually haven't lasted.
I was best friends with the leads in an 500? person FC for awhile, guess what nearly destroyed it after a decade of them playing together? Yea, stupid drama related to things like this entire topic.

The only ones I see fine didn't "start" out their friendship ingame.
Obviously thats not 100% of the time, but over 10+ years of playing? I've not personally seen a single one pan out.
It's nothing but drama honestly.

Lot of it boils down to too much controlling from one person, or the other being overly too damn needy. (The guy you met sounds like both)

For whatever reason most people act way more of either of those in this game then they actually ever would IRL.
The 3rd scenario which isn't too shocking since it's online only is one of the 2 acting like a street walker, lol. (yea guys Im talkin to you too)