Each to their own, though given that Venat was deliberately withholding key information from the rest of her people then I don't think she was in any real position to judge them based on not conforming to a 'test' that they were entirely unaware of participating in. It's not as if they lacked the means to actually follow through with working towards the restoration of their civilisation, species and loved ones and even the 'controversial' proposed third round of sacrifices is the lesser evil in the fact of subjecting every man, woman and child amongst the Ancients to a cruel and unusual death to satisfy the whims of a self styled 'supreme deity'.

I fully believe that Venat meant well, though that doesn't change the simple fact that the knowledge she held meant she was in a position where her inaction led to the Final Days happening. I know it's pretty common for abusive and neglectful parental figures to deflect and gaslight in an effort to shift the blame onto their children and I see a lot of interesting parallels between such tactics and Venat's treatment of not only the Sundered but the Unsundered as well.

To me, it is simply bizarre that she has the audacity to question both as to why they aren't behaving exactly as she desires them to when neither the Sundered or the Unsundered had consented to or were aware of her shady experiments. Then again, this is the same individual who declared that everybody should 'walk' only to conveniently ensure that she, herself, retained a pair of wings...so consistency and logic does not appear to be her strong suit.