So this game has dps checks but we can't talk about our dps in game?

[Rolder50]

All a parser will do is tell you what the Enrage already told you. Not enough damage.

Incorrect. You can upload the parse to XIV Analysis and it can look at your log and tell you exactly what you are doing wrong. For example, it will show you incorrect weaves, missed combos, unspent resources, cooldowns left inactive for too long, etc etc.