So this game has dps checks but we can't talk about our dps in game?

[Saraide]

You would have to read the new ToS they put out late last year, I am pretty sure it says something about vote dismissing players. It contained a lot of kinda nutty stuff such as not being allowed to tell a player how to play.

Fundamentally different than vote dismiss. As PF host you do have authority who is in your group and who isnt, as random DF member you dont. SE is specifically giving you the power to kick someone and unlike vote dismissal where you need to state a reason, as group leader you dont need to give a reason. Of course you shouldnt trash talk someone before you remove them (like discouraging from joining a group in general) but that's why I said to just silently kick, quick and simple.