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    LindMorne's Avatar
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    Lind Morne
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    Faerie
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    Pugilist Lv 25

    Looking for Community; LGBT+, wide interests, social anxiety

    Putting 'social anxiety' in the title will probably cause some to ignore this, but it's arguably the most important factor for me.
    I have a lot of past stress that I'm doing everything I can to manage, and do a decent job mostly because I'm able to suppress it.
    But even without I've had a hard time finding a good social fit.

    If possible I'd be looking for some sort of social support community that has experience with actual anxiety, but I doubt that exists- I'm aware that my case is sort of rare in that being exactly what I'd prefer.
    Although I'd love to make one myself, I don't really have connections (one day maybe).

    One good thing though is I have such wide interests-
    I kind of doubt there's an activity in ff14 I wouldn't be happy to prioritize, so if the above did exist it'd fit.

    Outside of that though, I figured asking here couldn't hurt-
    The chances are low imo, but there aren't downsides.

    If your looking for something more specifc I could offer, I'm pretty good at analysis and planning-
    My stress from past events has resulted in that as a benefit I think.
    So like scheduling, time/3dspace management, maybe even raid management if I learn them.
    Also since I'm picky with content, but want a lot of it, I have a good grasp on what I need to do and am good at research imo.

    Thanks for checking this out, and feel free to ask anything!
    I hope to be useful in some way ;^.^
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    Constantly striving to improve myself and learn about other cultures and major issues when I can, so please don't hesitate to call me out on anything!

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    Rena Kisaragi
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    Pugilist Lv 80
    There are many LGBT+ FC here on Faerie so I am sure you find one that is right for you.

    I run Pekoe which is a pretty low stress FC. Social FC that filled with people who just kind of want to play at their own pace. Friendly environment and a emphasis on text based chat within the FC. We are a medium to large FC, although chat usually mellow due to having more relaxed members. If you are looking for a smaller experience I am sure there many other FC that fit that very well.
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    Lind Morne
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    Faerie
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    Pugilist Lv 25
    Quote Originally Posted by Liselsia View Post
    There are many LGBT+ FC here on Faerie so I am sure you find one that is right for you.

    I run Pekoe which is a pretty low stress FC. Social FC that filled with people who just kind of want to play at their own pace. Friendly environment and a emphasis on text based chat within the FC. We are a medium to large FC, although chat usually mellow due to having more relaxed members. If you are looking for a smaller experience I am sure there many other FC that fit that very well.
    Sorry it took a bit to respond, the season caught up with me and I've had a lot to keep track of xp
    Thanks so much for the comment, I'll look into your place for sure, but even if it doesn't work out knowing smaller FC's may have a higher probability helps too- I don't have enough experience to be confident in that on my own.
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    Constantly striving to improve myself and learn about other cultures and major issues when I can, so please don't hesitate to call me out on anything!