Bozja is really frustrating. Im not complaining about it because I cant get exp as I am missing fates, I am doing it because this is actually wrong of how I need to play in order to gain exp out of this. Any teamwork is practically gone. Castrum is filled with people that dont even know what Essences are (me was one of them) and often you find yourself with 1 healer, 1 tank and 6 dps. Doing the first boss is often impossible. Generally you have to be egoistic and people do.

Here is why:

You need to start with 25 clusters, which is okay i guess as an investment to this place. Or you need a taxi. Speed is everything here. If you dont have the bonus mount speed, you will miss out on a lot of fates.

"Dipping" into fates is needed as NPCs kill fates fairly quick for people to get scared and they want to contribute to every fate. Additionally, enemies within fates die so quick, that you cant contribute to it with certain classes.

Enemies follow you to the end of the world and keep you from using teleportations. You miss out on fates/Exp when getting sighted. Nobody will help you kill the enemiy because they would miss out on exp too.

Dying can cause you to miss out on fates sometimes, not really, but people probably have PTSD from eureka where you do not wanna miss out on exp. Also low-level players may not want to give up on additional exp so they hope for a revive.
Reviving people costs time, thus only a few do this. Whoever does it may miss out on exp due to time.