OP, I want you to do something for me, ok?

Breath, and relax. It's a video game.

Yes, it's a game we're all paying subscription costs for, but it's a game none the less.

I understand your frustration, but the dev team has been consistently doing everything within their power to both continue the development of the product for the people who can play, and keep working on getting updates on new server hardware to get those that can't play, in.

Content patches shouldn't have their schedules altered any further than they already have been. No one will be missing out. The beauty of FFXIV is you'll jump right back in and catch up mechanics will be sitting there waiting for you, to be able to jump into the current tier ASAP, as well as retroactively getting your clears on the previous tier.

The game will still be here when you CAN play. Until then, just try and relax. Don't let a video game get you that upset. If you have to, unsub to save yourself the money while you wait, or until your schedule can permit you the time to play at non-peak hours.