I appreciate the responses, thank you. I knew not to try the extreme and savage modes until later but I'd like to clear some of these hard dungeon blue quests out of my log. The rate I get to play and the amount of side tracks I'm getting absorbed into, it could be months before I get to the end of the story, but I don't want to waste people's time by queueing for things I'm not suppose to be. I get people who have been playing for possibly years at this point just trying to blitz through things quickly to get whatever rewards they need and don't really want to spend a lot of time on this old content.

Asking questions about fights is a thing that's a little hard to do since I have to deprogram the part of my brain that just assumes there is nothing but a pile of racial slurs if I ask a question. I'm guessing it still happens here but seems everyone says it happens a lot less.