I have been summoned to post once more. God be with you all, because I shall have no mercy for the forum post-length limits. (Though, I mean... do I ever?)
I've tried to explain my position several times in this thread. (Arguably at greater length and verbosity than is strictly necessary.)
For one thing, I don't think it's an absolute. Something like ReShade that I use for purposes of better depth-of-field in GPose screenshots, or turning a screenshot into watercolor or an oil painting or a pencil sketch or whatever other insane artistic shader I've written recently (I will someday figure out a good algorithm for sumi-e ink painting)... is that a huge problem?
(Heck, even if it was, I could just stuff my shaders into Nvidia's Freestyle, which officially supports the game; if you haven't rebound the key and have an Nvidia card with GeForce Experience running, hit Alt+F2 in-game and tada, Nvidia's variant of ReShade! You're running it right now! It's just that ReShade/GShade has an interface that's far more convenient for me, as -- among other things -- I can reload my shaders while developing them, without having to quit the dang game and restart.)
But while the specific stuff being discussed here doesn't seem hugely problematic to me, there are definitely mods that are problematic. See, for instance, an excerpt taken from this post:
Or from this post:
For another, I'm not convinced the specific mods being repeatedly discussed in this thread (ACT's Cactbot addon -- specifically Cactbot's "Raidboss" module, various UI tweaks, and -- weirdly -- the mini Cactpot solver that also can be found as a webapp on many sites) actually give anyone a meaningful advantage, as opposed to QoL tweaks.
(XIValexander is a potentially problematic outlier among the specific things being bandied about in this thread, and I've detailed my opinion on it separately; I have mixed feelings on it, because while it can obviously be used for cheating intent, it can also let someone play the game with the same ability to weave or double-weave that I -- as someone with low ping to the servers -- can do unaided. I like leveling the playing field, but I find the ability to use it to make said field uneven and cheat to be concerning and problematic.)
But with the exception of XIValexander, I don't think there's a huge fundamental advantage to something like Cactbot over having a human raid-caller; I've noted this several times. Yes, there are unquestionably mechanics where I've been told it can call them faster than me (or with more personalized results). On the other hand, there's also a lot of stuff that Cactbot apparently gets wrong, which I tend to think balances it out. For instance, from the same post as the previous quote:
But lastly, I think there's a difference that seems small but is surprisingly meaningful between "cheating" and "unfair". Are the mods being discussed here unfair, because PC users have the (hypothetical) option to use them and console players don't? Yes, unequivocably, they're unfair; none of them really give you information that isn't available already by other means, but they can repackage it in a far more convenient manner. But are the specific ones being discussed here cheating? I don't actually think so.
As per yet another of my posts here:
Brief digression, but...
I don't actually think Discord itself is against the ToS; I could be functionally just using my cell phone to call a friend and have them do callouts for me, and it would be functionally the same thing. I wish folks would generally stop using Discord voice as an example here, because it feels like a strawman argument. Though if you squint, you could probably make the ToS forbid it.
(Discord's in-game overlay that shows who's currently talking, though, would probably be against a strict reading of the ToS.)