I agree SMN should be stronger than RDM but I don't think RDM should be weaker than it is right now.

I personally don't like the prog vs kill balancing. I don't want to feel less wanted or less useful because i'm with people who know what to do.
I think offensive utility is more important when it comes to how much it should tax personal dps. Defensive utility should too but to a lesser extent imo.

SMN just needs buffs.