While the game has enrages, they are not as tight as you're letting on.
You can clear savage technically with grey/green damage.
You can kill ultimate just being mediocre (that means basic understanding just hitting buttons on CD. Jobs are even easier now, so as long as you have burst every 2 minutes you'll be ok. You can read the TP and get a basic understanding.
Problem is, in HW it was EXTREMELY don't ask don't tell. Now you literally have PFs that actually tell you it's a parse and enforce 90 to 95+ (that's 2 strikes btw)
I'm on average in the purple to orange range (blue with no gear at all in late tier, obviously)
Parsing is 100% hindering the experience of the game. Even worse if you're a console player. Devs know they are at a disadvantage. Clearing and doing good damage isn't enough.
FFlogs needs to go away, tbh. Parse is fine. FFlogs is not.
Like its against tos. Plain and simple. The reason why SE doesn't necessarily go after you is privacy, as in, they won't look into your account to find it.
But making a post of PF that you're parsing? Mentioning that you have it in the chat box? You can get suspended for it as its against tos.
Discord required? Same thing (requiring discord is ableist, btw).