Theres an accepted ideology in this game of "healers need to dps" and its causing and has caused a lot of problems. 1

in any 8 player group you also have one healer and one dps spammer. This demoralizes said healer and they quit the role.
2

even the notion of healers doing their job will get you reported or banned from the forums. Def 2021.
3

I want to refuse my role as a dps and want party heals and self heals to make up for healer dps.
4

your parses mean nothing when the group is dead.
5

why even bother when 90% of you would be more useful as red Mage?
Stops wasting everyone's time and do your job or quit the role please. And when you rez, heal the person.