"just be an adult and you don't get banned lol"
do you guys go through the forums with blinders or something? there's tons of posts which clearly insult someone else, who most likely got reported, where the person who spewed the insult hasn't been banned and in addition to that, you also have several examples in this thread were people got banned for nothing and seemingly at random
again, because it's such an egregious example, my friend politely said that another poster should get help because they were accused of stalking and trying to hurt them - the other poster insulted them and didn't get a ban, but the friend did, despite staying civilised throughout the whole 'argument'
hell, many of the virtuous and moral people of the OF frequently say worse things, yet nothing happens to them, which shows that there clearly is an issue with this weird moderation
troll threads are allowed to reach 20+ pages, but legitimate, civil discussions sometimes get removed without a word