I doubt anyone will listen to this, and (sorry op if this doesn't go with what your talking about it kind of does though.

So here's my advice if you can escape the forums right now I suggest you do it before it brings harm, stress to you. I've had many bad experiences on game forums but square enix is the only forums that have caused so much misery and pain that it has made me return to habits that took me years to stop and get over. Has lead to agruements and upping doses of pills. It honestly the most unsafe forum on the internet if you have any thoughts, feelings or passion about anything. Its to late for myself as it seems like the only place i can go to to put such thoughts/passion even though i know sooner or later it will go bad and end up in a ban again then ill repeat the bad stuff to myself and struggle to sleep and honestly cry a good bit clinging to my real things. People will gang up on you, label you and set you up to go off and self defend your ideas, passion etc. I've had this issue with the forum since my original character Bloom Peters from siren (well before heavensward) and the forum i cant stop going to has lead to many negative things irl.

So if you can stop i suggest you do it before it leads to down spiral of misery and stress.