FFXIV Girls only discord server

[strawberrycake]

This can never be guaranteed anywhere.
Not gonna name names because tbh I don't memorize all of it and I cba to look it up atm.
But there's some really big '' activist '' woman in the games industry who runs rampant on Twitter and is on the board of some big game dev organisation.
She has a really really long history of being a real piece of shit garbage person but she gets a pass because she has '' the correct politics '' and is extremely vocal about it to an obnoxious level.

A while ago a whole bunch of women came out and talked about how she had been abusing them behind the scenes and been extremely creepy.
The most infuriating thing is that people argued she deserved a second chance and all that even tho it was very recent and her apology was incredibly half-arsed and the victims didn't buy it at all.

It's true that women in the games industry do get abused and harassed and such more often than men, but it's not true that it's not a big problem for men too and it's also definitely not true that it's just men abusing women.
HR in particular has a big overrepresentation of women and HR is very often the enablers at large studios who gaslight and/ or intimidate victims into silence.

Moral of the story is that women are not a bunch of innocent little flowers who would never hurt a fly, women are just as capable of being pieces of shit as men are.
The reason why men are usually more often bad towards women is because of the physical advantage it's dangerous to a womans physical well-being more directly if she does something bad to a man while it generally isn't for a man to do to a woman.
As soon as you start evening out these things and you get more women in power and more women dominated spaces that barrier is removed and the ugly sides come out.




All of that said I do understand women who want a woman only space because of that too, I am big into fighting games for example and I am all for womens only tournaments because a lot of women feel really uncomfortable or even unsafe to attend tournaments.
There's definitely a lot of creepy guys and people fetishizing them.
You can't get rid of that by having a woman only space but you can minimize at least certain aspects of it ( in particular the sexual ones, but then you also get women like in my above example ).

No thats all very true, and I know exactly who you're talking about, but my main point to that person who can Audit the server. is :

I'm very aware of that, but my point is that, this situation has made people uneasy about this server. And this person can get and show proof, and is choosing not to. So how can you help people avoid their fears of this server and possibly being abused?

And I kinda find it sus that they're refusing to simply post proof that they're being lied on. Which to me, shows they're kinda full of it, but thats my personal opinion.