Quote Originally Posted by Xrystofer View Post
Who did I marginalize? Please tell me.
Please, don't be purposefully ignorant. Not every man or white person is a racist or sexist, we are all aware of that. Wanting a safe space away from those groups is still understandable regardless. And if you were so virtuous you would be supportive of them instead of taking it personally.

You sound like every person who says "but I didn't" or "not all x" misdirecting from the actual issue at hand because you are so concerned with yourself rather than the people who are actual victims. The fact of the matter is that men and white people DO marginalise these other groups (again not all of them), so it should be no shock when people within those communities want a space without them. If you are white or male you should recognise that there are people within your community who do bad things and work together to rectify such behaviours rather than deflect with 'I didn't do it', plenty men around me wouldn't do such things but they DONT call out their male friends who act like total creeps, they don't report their crimes to police. And for some the lesson comes to late when a male friend has r*ped one of their female friends, only then did they realise their mistake.