Each to their own, I guess.

I don't attribute what the server is doing as some grave, unforgivable sin. If a group of women want to come together and create a space that works for them? Great.

It's little different to a group of players who are French, German or Russian creating a server specifically for French, German or Russian players.

Different groups of people have different needs and expecting every group to bend over and prioritise members outside of that group is arguably why there are so many problems in the world right now.