Visiting another world server? Can't return due to congestion before you have to log off..

Log on next day, and just before you enter the world, you see a message saying you've been visiting, and to use a starting city aetherite to return.

Unfortunately, if it's still congested, you now have to wait for the login queue to the server you're vising, and ALSO wait for the transfer queue as well.
The game should at least ask you if you want to return when the initial visiting message appears, and perform the switch BEFORE you wait to get on, eliminating one queue wait.