1 Small Fix Would Solve Most Issues Here

[Timmyftw]

If the character is already logged in we shouldn't be moved to the back of the queue again.
Forcing the character to log out and relog puts more strain onto the login lobby.
If the character is already logged in as the prompt says... then just let us resume the character?
Less server strain than moving the character through the login lobby server again.

[ibiteyourankle]

There is already a small window for you to log back in before you are put back into the queue. Unfortunately, due to how many people trying to log in, the refresh time kicks in before you make that small window requirement. As for the strain on the lobby, I think they have already patched some of the bugs (which was not apparent because they never had such a server load). But, regardless, the server has to refresh the status/queues because others are waiting where going back to what I stated previously, due to to the load, currently, that time frame for you to log back in without a queue is usually not met.