Small comparison after only one month of playing FFXIV and ESO from beta...

Healer, tank dead on boss fight:
-ESO: you (insert at least 5 random insults) cant even heal single target!
-FFXIV: do not worry, it is on him to use mitigations and proper skills, lets try again

Healer, DPS dead as usual because standing in stupid is fun and sexy:
-ESO: you (insert just 2 or 3 random insults as we have more then one DPS) go L2P!
-FFXIV: sorry mate should move out from crap, my bad

DPS,it is going slow, adds are not killed in time etc etc
-ESO: you (insert at least 10 random insults ending with threats about raping my cat) go train on practice dummy, or better quit the game, low DPS only 20k, my dog can do 50k!
-FFXIV: stuff is dying even if slow, what are you worried about? Lets go.

Random PVP que saying Hey guys as always before we start
-ESO: (insert cricket sound effect)
-FFXIV:
Hi x3
Hey x2
Sup bro
Ey mate
Hello x4
Hi all lets go have fun!

So yea, first post and only month of playing, but better to start with something like that I guess...

Thank you all guys, veterans and sprouts alike for making it possible for me to enjoy playing DPS for first time in a really long time, and not feeling stressed as hell when playing healer.

Never change.