I [had] a guy on my friends list from an old FC I was a part of prior to doing a server swap a few years ago. He hasn't logged out of XIV since the xpac dropped 2 weeks ago. I sent him a pretty nasty message and deleted him from my contacts. People who do crap like this are gutter trash. It's unfortunate that SE can't do much about it without pissing everybody else off while they are at it.