Ohhhh. So it's my internet's fault. Gotcha. Weird that I don't have ANY other issues with my internet except when being in queue in FFXIV. In fact, I would say my internet is fairly rock solid.
It also doesn't explain why there is no auto reconnect feature like most anything else circa 2007. If you're gonna kick me out, at least give me my spot back once I get back in. I really don't think this is too much to ask for... and "a few tens of seconds" doesn't cut it.