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  1. #51
    Player
    Kewitt's Avatar
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    Ewitt Rainbow
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    Balmung
    Main Class
    Fisher Lv 100
    I don't actively role play. most of the time I'm rushing through content to get tomes cap quickly but right now.
    I taking in the story and if I could be part of their story I would likely join in a little.

    On a side note.
    /em hands over her last piece of parchment to <t> it reads. Sorry, I'm a mute!
    (2)
    Commendations.
    If I play dps I only give it out to other dps.
    If I play tank I only give it out to healers.
    If I play healer I only give it out to tank.

    Only if they should be getting a commendation.
    There are always exceptions to the rules!

  2. #52
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    Denaura's Avatar
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    Character
    Denaura Solace
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    Faerie
    Main Class
    Sage Lv 90
    On the one side I think RPing like that is funny as hell... I don't get it but sure to each their own, I tried to play it cool and cooperate a couple of times, so awkward haha
    On the other... first world problems, and not even in the real world. Sorry, ignore and carry on.

    Or just be blunt and tell them to bring their weirdness somewhere else? Did not look like they cared about how you would feel so why would you care for them?
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    Last edited by Denaura; 12-13-2021 at 08:01 AM.

  3. #53
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    Kanitezz's Avatar
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    Pool of Regret
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    302
    Character
    Jubii Io
    World
    Mateus
    Main Class
    Warrior Lv 90
    Quote Originally Posted by badpuppeh View Post
    This game turns into WoW more and more as each day passes, while I'm glad that the influx of WoW players has helped this game, I can see the flavor of that community creeping in.
    I dont know if you're implying I ever played WoW. If you are, just know that I've never played WoW. Also I find it difficult to type while doing a dungeon and playing with a controller at the same time.
    Quote Originally Posted by MilkieTea View Post
    You have anxiety... so what?

    So long as they weren't gimping the run they're doing fine. They have every right to use the chat box so long as they are not harassing you. And it seems they weren't, considering you said nothing to indicate you were uncomfortable with the situation. From someone who has a diagnosed generalized anxiety disorder: Suck. It. Up. If you're uncomfortable with something either say something or don't complain when others can't read your mind.

    Edit with quote inb4 any possible OP edits:
    We may both have an anxiety disorder but that doesn't automatically mean the severity of mine is is the exact same as yours. It feels like you're trying to trivialize my struggle by telling us that you have anxiety too yet you have the capacity to suck. It. Up. If it was that easy for me at that time I would have done it before. I would've hoped someone with an anxiety disorder as well would've been more understanding than that.

    Someone else made a point if I can post on the forums, I could've posted in party chat to ask them to stop right? The difference is a dungeon is real time and I have to respond to the party in real time. On these forums I can take however long I need to steel my nerves to press that post button.

    With that being said everyone. I've seen a few good points from some of you. And I do admit I could have handled the situation better. I'll work on my temperament to better myself. To the specific group of role players this thread is about, or anyone else this upset, I apologize for bringing it up in the first place. I was wrong, I shouldn't have done it. In the future I'll force myself to be more verbal about stuff like that. And deal with the escalated situation if it gets escalated at all. Again to those of you who this thread upset, I'm sorry. To those of you who were remotely empathetic, thank you. You have no idea how much it means to me.
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  4. #54
    Player
    Alaray's Avatar
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    Gridania
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    Character
    Vevri Arctyria
    World
    Balmung
    Main Class
    Red Mage Lv 100
    You have to learn how to properly cope with your own problems, that's not another person's responsibility. If they're not actively hindering the actual run, griefing, etc... and are just having a spot of fun that's bothering you -- either learn to communicate, or run with trusts until you can.

    Might sound harsh, but you're responsible for yourself. I'm not.
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  5. #55
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    Eriane_Elis's Avatar
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    Character
    Eriane Elis
    World
    Exodus
    Main Class
    White Mage Lv 90
    I don't understand the anxiety part? I think people were raised much differently in this new generation. Either ignore party chat or tell them you don't RP. Simple as that.
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  6. #56
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    Puc's Avatar
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    Character
    Ya Ni
    World
    Exodus
    Main Class
    Sage Lv 90
    Blessing to get rp chat than dead silence that makes you feel that you might as well be running with ai or annoyance from an overly aggressive tank or dps that is trying to hit top 3 speedrun spot.
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  7. #57
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    EtherRose's Avatar
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    Character
    Ether Rose
    World
    Diabolos
    Main Class
    Monk Lv 100
    Report them. They can be apprehended for this. While they were trying to be playful it shouldn't be done with random people you don't know especially when you queue randomly. As for the ToS, 3.2 ~
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  8. #58
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    Puc's Avatar
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    Character
    Ya Ni
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    Exodus
    Main Class
    Sage Lv 90
    Quote Originally Posted by EtherRose View Post
    Report them. They can be apprehended for this. While they were trying to be playful it shouldn't be done with random people you don't know especially when you queue randomly. As for the ToS, 3.2 ~

    Sad you would go to report for people being playful, exactly what adds to what is wrong with this game.
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  9. #59
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    Seera1024's Avatar
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    Character
    Chymea Sum
    World
    Siren
    Main Class
    Black Mage Lv 100
    Quote Originally Posted by EtherRose View Post
    Report them. They can be apprehended for this. While they were trying to be playful it shouldn't be done with random people you don't know especially when you queue randomly. As for the ToS, 3.2 ~
    I don't think it's reportable unless one or the more occur:

    1. The RP is hindering or slowing progress in the duty and they've not gotten permission beforehand for it, especially if it will affect their ability to actually kill things.

    2. They've been asked to stop and they continue to do so.

    3. The RP they are doing violates some other aspect of the TOS.

    The OP's emoting back could have been seen by the RP'ers as a consent via RP'ing back.

    Edit to add:

    If I were the RP'ers and reported by someone and brought in front of a GM, I would have brought up the OP's emoting back and assuming that that meant they were open to RP'ing and that their character was mute. That I would have stopped had someone said they were uncomfortable and that myself and my RP partner were just trying to make some additional fun for the group by RP'ing.
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    Last edited by Seera1024; 12-13-2021 at 01:38 PM.

  10. #60
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    Agrios's Avatar
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    Character
    Broken Boar
    World
    Mateus
    Main Class
    Dragoon Lv 91
    For all of you who claim to have anxiety and are telling OP to "Grow up" or get over it, you should be aware that there are very different levels of anxiety. What is a very simple thing to do for you can be very difficult for someone else.
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