my below suggestion is taking into consideration that they are looking/working on implementing solutions...
at least make the queue have a grace period for the lobby errors. example.. instead of loging in and you're 4000 in queue and by the time you hit 3000 you get kicked out and then log back in to a 5000 queue
and/or
priorities PAYING SUBS.. i hate to say it but SQUENIX relies on us to pay their bills for the non paying members to enjoy a lot of content for free... both of these would go a long way... but ultimately the below will need to happen SOONER THAN LATER:
it should be like this... 4000 queue down to 3000 then get disconnected or lobby error. 5min grace to log back in and when you get back in your "grace period spot wasn't lost it , it still continued to go down the queue and you pick up where you left off... it would make this non sense more digestible …. and we all know this problem wont go anytime soon. it'll get worse tomorrow even and for atleast the next couple of months... they have to upgrade the infrastructure