I mean we all want to play, they want people to play their game, you can do something else until it get fixed or just stop playing if its that hard on you, sounds like you can't take the stress of having to wait so just stop playing and make yourself happy. Myself im reading, playing Halo and watching movies, if I get in great but I knew it would be congested like EVERY popular online game and expansion pretty much ever there would be long queues and problems, this happens for 99.9% of big MMORPGs.