Unhappy with DC/Server choice.

[Setesh45]

Thank you. I have been playing MMO's a long time. I miss the days when in game chat was a constant wall of text. I guess maybe they will never return. Especially sucks cause I sometimes play on PS5 rather than PC. I dont want to rely on third party applications for...well, anything really. I don't understand it.

Yeah, seems we are the same, I remember those times too and miss them. I don't get what's so bad about the in game chat, it works perfectly fine.
Here's to a couple of mmo old timers lost in the confusing new world, lol. * downs a shot of copium hoping for the good ol' times to return *

[Xaruko_Nexume]

Yeah, seems we are the same, I remember those times too and miss them. I don't get what's so bad about the in game chat, it works perfectly fine.
Here's to a couple of mmo old timers lost in the confusing new world, lol. * downs a shot of copium hoping for the good ol' times to return *

Here's to us OG gamers. *cheers*

Maybe I will feel more inclined to use Discord once it comes to PS5 which should be early 2022, if still on schedule.

[Kes13a]

Thank you. I have been playing MMO's a long time. I miss the days when in game chat was a constant wall of text. I guess maybe they will never return. Especially sucks cause I sometimes play on PS5 rather than PC. I dont want to rely on third party applications for...well, anything really. I don't understand it.

Yeah, seems we are the same, I remember those times too and miss them. I don't get what's so bad about the in game chat, it works perfectly fine.
Here's to a couple of mmo old timers lost in the confusing new world, lol. * downs a shot of copium hoping for the good ol' times to return *

the only thing lost here is the fact its not the game its the people playing. our FC has a busy chat when people are on, and when people are working, people use the discord. and really, really REALLY depends on teh FC. I mean you can have a hoping FC chat, where its only 4 people... or you can be losing messages in a wall of text after doing an instance.

1. people could be pushing to get to 80, so not much time to talk
2. some people just dont like talking
3. are YOU talking when people are online? I mean someone has to start the conversations

in some FC's there is a lot of chatter, in some there arent. most chatty FC's are going to likely be smaller and friendlier, but can tend to be friends sohmight be harder to fit in. These days, there are so many reasons why FC's might not be chatty.. and one of teh biggest reasons is... no one starts a conversation.

[Xaruko_Nexume]

the only thing lost here is the fact its not the game its the people playing. our FC has a busy chat when people are on, and when people are working, people use the discord. and really, really REALLY depends on teh FC. I mean you can have a hoping FC chat, where its only 4 people... or you can be losing messages in a wall of text after doing an instance.

1. people could be pushing to get to 80, so not much time to talk
2. some people just dont like talking
3. are YOU talking when people are online? I mean someone has to start the conversations

in some FC's there is a lot of chatter, in some there arent. most chatty FC's are going to likely be smaller and friendlier, but can tend to be friends sohmight be harder to fit in. These days, there are so many reasons why FC's might not be chatty.. and one of teh biggest reasons is... no one starts a conversation.

Im sure thats often true. I try to start conversations in what I would describe a relatively active FC. "Hows the day? Whats everyone doing tonight? Excited for Endwalker?" Sometimes one or two replies. Often nothing for hours. But you always see these people in /s or discord. It's really odd to me.

Im starting to think this is an age issue. The past few months, those who seem to want the same things I do in the game are evidently no younger than 30 and often times much older. I need to find that thread from a few weeks ago about boomer FC's and find one of them.

It's just weird to me for all the hype about this community being great it is certainly very quiet and reserved. (and it is absolutely NOT toxic at all compared to WoW and many others. Only twice since June can I think of encountering anyone actually rude)

[Jojoya]

Im sure thats often true. I try to start conversations in what I would describe a relatively active FC. "Hows the day? Whats everyone doing tonight? Excited for Endwalker?" Sometimes one or two replies. Often nothing for hours. But you always see these people in /s or discord. It's really odd to me.

Im starting to think this is an age issue. The past few months, those who seem to want the same things I do in the game are evidently no younger than 30 and often times much older. I need to find that thread from a few weeks ago about boomer FC's and find one of them.

It's just weird to me for all the hype about this community being great it is certainly very quiet and reserved. (and it is absolutely NOT toxic at all compared to WoW and many others. Only twice since June can I think of encountering anyone actually rude)

A lot of chat gets moved to Discord (for those FCs that have it) because you don't have to be online playing the game to talk with others in the FC, and it allows friends outside of the FC to join in as well. It passes a lot of the limitations of in-game communication.

There are still FCs that are chatty in game, though. They tend to be the midsized FCs that recruit based on a member already knowing the player (frequently real life friends and family) over those that mass recruit anyone and everyone. Most find it easier to be social around those they already know and like.