Quote Originally Posted by Lexis View Post
I've read the OP's post twice now and still don't understand the point they're trying to make.

Regarding the first death, the group takes the majority of the blame for not paying attention and realizing the tank has stopped, and if they went ahead and pulled the next pack, they could have just brought it back to the tank, although OP also fails his perception check (for my fellow D&D nerds out there) and could have just as easily followed the group that clearly ran ahead rather than stay back to sulk and die. Sounds like it was just a big misunderstanding though with no real harm done, so let's move on to the confusing part.

So we're doing single pulls, fighting 3 mobs, and the healer is DPSing. This seems to boggles OP's mind despite being completely normal behavior. Very little healing should be needed when doing single pulls, so you bet your shiny tank bum the healer is going to help dps the mobs down. If you want your healer to focus primarily on healing, give them something to heal and do bigger pulls.

So the tank, at this point, begins berating the healer and then the 2 DPS die? On a single pull of 3 mobs? How?! Did you not have aggro anymore? Even then, I doubt it would have been enough to kill both the DPS before either you or the healer can react. Did you die? If so..
How?! It's a 3 mob pull, they should have died before you even take enough damage to bite the dust, especially with the healer DPSing. Something doesn't add up here.
Mind you, it wasnt 3 mobs or groups. It was 3 dudes. Not 3 sets of 3 or 4 guys. Just 3. In the span of 2 seconds, my life gets melted, healer was just negligent. Im glad im not crazy and many others here understand that healers can just be bad.