"Everyone's so open and friendly" is a lie

[Juzjuzz]

everyone that thinks this community is nothing but nice should read that place, just to see how many of those 'nice' players are super toxic

Yup it's either the players showed that are toxic or the redditors being assholes as well.
There's just no way of completly avoiding toxicity, it's possible to find ways tout get a better situation but it will never be good all the time.

Still thinking about what happened to scottzone

Same, he made a lot of good points but it's always the same : if you don't aggree with the general ideas in a community everything you say gets demonized.

[Kahnom]

Not gonna surprise if someone gets suspend on 1st day early access because they act toxic to others.

[Sotaris]

Not gonna surprise if someone gets suspend on 1st day early access because they act toxic to others.

Why? Why wouldn't you get suspended today if you being toxic to others?

[Kahnom]

Why? Why wouldn't you get suspended today if you being toxic to others?

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It's an early access, the last thing you need is to get suspended and missing out the experience from the first few days.
But there will be an idiot who uses the harsh words and cause troubles to others on the first day and got banned due to their own stupidity.

can't believe I have to explain this .....

[Sotaris]

........

It's an early access, the last thing you need is to get suspended and missing out the experience from the first few days.
But there will be an idiot who uses the harsh words and cause troubles to others on the first day and got banned due to their own stupidity.

can't believe I have to explain this .....

There is no different to being toxic right now or on a early access launch day.
If you can't control your own emotions and actions, then you should probably get the consequences for your actions.

can't believe I have to explain this ......

[Kahnom]

There is no different to being toxic right now or on a early access launch day.
If you can't control your own emotions and actions, then you should probably get the consequences for your actions.

can't believe I have to explain this ......

If you get it, Don't ask why.

[Rinhi]

yeah just allow yourself to get vilified, insulted, harassed and whatnot for daring to have a different opinion than the hivemind - or lo and behold talk about your experience in a way that doesn't fit well with what's allowed
the downvote and karma system is surely working perfectly to self-moderate those undesirables away, I agree

[linayar]

yeah just allow yourself to get vilified, insulted, harassed and whatnot for daring to have a different opinion than the hivemind - or lo and behold talk about your experience in a way that doesn't fit well with what's allowed
the downvote and karma system is surely working perfectly to self-moderate those undesirables away, I agree

I've seen insults from multiple sides of duty finder issues. If it's against Reddit's rules, then report them. Otherwise, if everyone (in Reddit at least) were to stick to one sub, it can paint a better picture of the community's views.

[Rinhi]

I've seen insults from multiple sides of duty finder issues. If it's against Reddit's rules, then report them. Otherwise, if everyone (in Reddit at least) were to stick to one sub, it can paint a better picture of the community's views.

that's... normal? what does that have to do with my point, I must ask, again?
to reiterate it; the community in the main sub (and basically the game itself) is actively suppressing dissenting voices and different opinions, even different experiences, painting those that don't fit into the hivemind and expectations as bad actors, as trolls, as people that have brought it upon themselves, and for what?
so that they can call themselves a nice and friendly community, just ignore all the toxicity that happens against people deemed 'bad', it's fine to be toxic against those because they deserve it, right? happens over and over again on reddit, happens over and over again on the forums here, even (along with crying that the OF is so bad because it isn't coddling people), but hey!

just talk about those toxic experiences you've had on your mainsub! your post about your tank griefing you for no reason will surely not be filled with people that tell you you deserved it, your endgame healer that you asked nicely to use something other than cure 1 and please do dps? people will surely be on your side and not tell you to mind your own business! doesn't matter that the 15 minute dungeon took 40 minutes because of them, you should've just left lol!
crafting mentor giving out bad advice in NN and you want to make a vent post about getting kicked by them and their clique after you corrected them? deleted, only positivity allowed, you were naming and shaming and inviting harassment, even if you weren't

[Dewslam]

My favorite posts in this thread are the ones where people complain that this game's community is to soft, coddled or toxic because it doesn't welcome their posts insulting, harassing, or abusing other members of the community; usually with the unsubtle implication that it's only wrong because the community isn't coddling them, personally.