"Everyone's so open and friendly" is a lie

[Xirean]

#1 Nothing messed up was said or done, they simply disagree but went nuclear, if they reported me, nothing ever happened (noone was attacked or insulted)

#2 Not at all, i like going to venues to find someone to have a chat with.

#3 I havent gone to that venue since, because i have no interest is going to a easily offended echo chamber. If having dissenting opinion has player turn on you, that rapidly. I want no part of that group

#4 With S.E as stringent as they are, i dont think id be able to post if i were chronically harassing people...Right? I just think the community is very disingenuous/thin skinned

Have you considered that maybe they just don't want to debate or have a fight inside their house? Especially if there are other guests...