"Everyone's so open and friendly" is a lie

[anguel]

You guys seem to make up your own stories of what happened and kinda go with that.

went specificaly, to read the others thread thoroughly because you said that, and here !

1: harassing them, by saying really fu... up things inside theyre PRIVATE house
2: making message in theyre message board actively filling it up to a point where the FC lead or an officer has to waste time "deleting" your message ... everyday !
3: you going all your way to world transfer from excalibur to go to these people on famfrit
4: doing this for couple of month now ...

The opinion i had was, people should try to work out the issues they have with their friends

if these things your doing, is your way of "fixing" a problem with a friend, i dont want to see what youll do to make a problem ...

[Solowing]

went specificaly, to read the others thread thoroughly because you said that, and here !

1: harassing them, by saying really fu... up things inside theyre PRIVATE house
2: making message in theyre message board actively filling it up to a point where the FC lead or an officer has to waste time "deleting" your message ... everyday !
3: you going all your way to world transfer from excalibur to go to these people on famfrit
4: doing this for couple of month now ...


if these things your doing, is your way of "fixing" a problem with a friend, i dont want to see what youll do to make a problem ...

#1 Nothing messed up was said or done, they simply disagree but went nuclear, if they reported me, nothing ever happened (noone was attacked or insulted)

#2 Not at all, i like going to venues to find someone to have a chat with.

#3 I havent gone to that venue since, because i have no interest is going to a easily offended echo chamber. If having dissenting opinion has player turn on you, that rapidly. I want no part of that group

#4 With S.E as stringent as they are, i dont think id be able to post if i were chronically harassing people...Right? I just think the community is very disingenuous/thin skinned

[Xirean]

#1 Nothing messed up was said or done, they simply disagree but went nuclear, if they reported me, nothing ever happened (noone was attacked or insulted)

#2 Not at all, i like going to venues to find someone to have a chat with.

#3 I havent gone to that venue since, because i have no interest is going to a easily offended echo chamber. If having dissenting opinion has player turn on you, that rapidly. I want no part of that group

#4 With S.E as stringent as they are, i dont think id be able to post if i were chronically harassing people...Right? I just think the community is very disingenuous/thin skinned

Have you considered that maybe they just don't want to debate or have a fight inside their house? Especially if there are other guests...

[Solowing]

Have you considered that maybe they just don't want to debate or have a fight inside their house? Especially if there are other guests...

There is noone fighting, youre simply trying to kick someone out for disagreeing with you, if you wanna just disagree, fine. But trying to go the extra mile? It wasnt a heated debate, just input, but bringing it from 0-100? Yea, you go ahead and fill that ticket out while soiling yourself because you dont feel safe from the player who had a different opinion.

[DRHaymaker]

You want me to get out the world smallest violin? Ill even play it!

Like I said - I don't pity you.

There is noone fighting, youre simply trying to kick someone out for disagreeing with you

Really poorly argued semantics.

[Xirean]

There is noone fighting, youre simply trying to kick someone out for disagreeing with you, if you wanna just disagree, fine. But trying to go the extra mile? Bringing it from 0-100? Yea you go ahead and fill that ticket out while soiling yourself because you dont feel safe.

I'm genuinely impressed how quickly we got to the bottom of this. Have a day.

[Padudu]

There is noone fighting, youre simply trying to kick someone out for disagreeing with you, if you wanna just disagree, fine. But trying to go the extra mile? It wasnt a heated debate, just input, but bringing it from 0-100? Yea, you go ahead and fill that ticket out while soiling yourself because you dont feel safe from the player who had a different opinion.

That didn't happen.
And if it did, it wasn't that bad.
And if it was, that's not a big deal.
And if it is, that's not my fault.
And if it was, I didn't mean it.
And if I did, you deserved it.

[Solowing]

went specificaly, to read the others thread thoroughly because you said that, and here !

1: harassing them, by saying really fu... up things inside theyre PRIVATE house
2: making message in theyre message board actively filling it up to a point where the FC lead or an officer has to waste time "deleting" your message ... everyday !
3: you going all your way to world transfer from excalibur to go to these people on famfrit
4: doing this for couple of month now ...



if these things your doing, is your way of "fixing" a problem with a friend, i dont want to see what youll do to make a problem ...

I dont mess with interpersonal Ff14 people issues anymore. Most of it is steeped in RP/RL mixxing. Most of it is built on appearances over substance.