"Everyone's so open and friendly" is a lie

[game_enjoyer]

I dont really think you do.

Maybe, you should educate yourself on what happened, or you look uneducated making claims like that.

You can make back-handed insult, but the only jerk here is me for not putting a infront of it....


Ahh gotta love FFXiv community. There's no toxicity here, its totally not hidden under a veneer



Didnt know you can feel unsafe in the comfort/safety of your own home, with the anonymity of of the internet because somebody disagrees with you. That cant see, hear or know who you are.... And that enough to report somebody?

This game is toxic, but a different breed of toxic, that tries to hide it under the surface

i can't believe they just came out and admitted to that. genuinely hilarious to post this as an example and then someone else immediately recognizing u as a serial harasser. poetry, honestly.

[Padudu]

i can't believe they just came out and admitted to that. genuinely hilarious to post this as an example and then someone else immediately recognizing u as a serial harasser. poetry, honestly.

I think the icing on the cake is that they blame everyone else for being the negative snowflake nannies lol

[Solowing]

i can't believe they just came out and admitted to that. genuinely hilarious to post this as an example and then someone else immediately recognizing u as a serial harasser. poetry, honestly.

You guys seem to make up your own stories of what happened and kinda go with that. The opinion i had was, people should try to work out the issues they have with their friends here rather then do what i commonly see.

Everyone is hunky dory, until somebody disagrees and 15 minutes later Now you have a fractured friend group split 3 ways. But everyone acts like they they are much tighter knit then the reality. But i guess i was wrong for saying that, and it upset them. But i guess that does validate them threatening a spurious report right?

Im not causing a disruption, they just dont like what i said, and its ok if your feelings are hurt as long as you or anyone else wasn't insulted or attacked.

[Xirean]

You guys seem to make up your own stories of what happened and kinda go with that. The opinion i had was, people should try to work out the issues they have with their friends here rather then do what i commonly see.

Everyone is hunky dory, until somebody disagrees and 15 minutes later Now you have a fractured friend group split 3 ways. But everyone acts like they they are much tighter knit then the reality. But i guess i was wrong for saying that, and it upset them. But i guess that does validate them threatening a spurious report right?

I think the situation is much simpler actually. You were in someones house and they decided for whatever reason that they didn't want you there and you refused to leave. That's all that matters really.

I get having a difficult conversation and wanting to work through that, but nobody is entitled to that. Such things are a privilege that we simply cannot expect.

[Padudu]

You guys seem to make up your own stories of what happened and kinda go with that. The opinion i had was, people should try to work out the issues they have with their friends here rather then do what i commonly see.

Everyone is hunky dory, until somebody disagrees and 15 minutes later Now you have a fractured friend group split 3 ways. But everyone acts like they they are much tighter knit then the reality. But i guess i was wrong for saying that, and it upset them. But i guess that does validate them threatening a spurious report right?

In your own screenshot that YOU posted they asked you to leave lol. It's in their own home, doesn't matter if it's an "open venue" or not. Your presence wasn't welcome there, so why would you stay lol? Would you like it if I came to your home and refused to leave when you asked? So why should they like it? They had every right to report you btw

[DRHaymaker]

You guys seem to make up your own stories of what happened and kinda go with that.

You admitted the person they were talking about was you. Full stop. You didn't say "It is, but...", you said "Yeah, that's me, they should have just agreed to disagree. They want to threaten me with a report? Do it."

You gave yourself ZERO wiggle room. You. No one else. Now you want to say "You guys are making things up."

[Solowing]

You admitted the person they were talking about was you. Full stop. You didn't say "It is, but...", you said "Yeah, that's me, they should have just agreed to disagree. They want to threaten me with a report? Do it."

You gave yourself ZERO wiggle room. You. No one else. Now you want to say "You guys are making things up."

The initial report reason was straight up spurious, and well if you feel like a broke a rule for that report, go ahead. But if youre feelings were hurt off something that wasn't offensive at all, i could care less about how you feel. Report away, didnt do anything, so im not moving.

[DRHaymaker]

The initial report reason was straight up spurious.

You admitted it was you. Full stop. You have the gall to call it spurious, and then in the exact same post...

(I) didnt do anything, so im not moving.

This is an oxymoron. They told you to leave, you didn't. You know they see you as a harasser, and whether you agree with it or not, that's what they see you as. And that's something they have seen you as for 8 times (that we know of). And that's JUST them. You're supposedly well known, so this is not an isolated incident, nor minority opinion.

At "best", you're a simple but dedicated troll. At worst, you're a broken, selfish, lonely person that deserves no sympathy.

[Solowing]

You admitted it was you. Full stop. You have the gall to call it spurious, and then in the exact same post...



This is an oxymoron. They told you to leave, you didn't. You know they see you as a harasser, and whether you agree with it or not, that's what they see you as. And that's something they have seen you as for 8 times (that we know of). And that's JUST them. You're supposedly well known, so this is not an isolated incident, nor minority opinion.

At "best", you're a simple but dedicated troll. At worst, you're a broken, selfish, lonely person that deserves no sympathy.

You want me to get out the world smallest violin? Ill even play it!

[Midareyukki]

You want me to get out the world smallest violin? Ill even play it!

idk about the world's smallest violin, but there isn't a room big enough to fit that massive ego.

Is accepting you've done something bad that hard?

There is noone fighting, youre simply trying to kick someone out for disagreeing with you

Yeah. Call it a day and leave. You refusing to leave is a problem. No matter how "public" you think it is. You know... like a normal person!