I've been called a toxic raider before in Orbonne when it was still fresh.

Why? Because after two (or three? Dunno) wipes of Thundergod because people STILL did not pay attention....

I told them to pay a little bit of attention for the circles and mechanics. I dont raid other than occasional on content extremes, i dunno.
And got flamed because i told people to turn the Mathboss around in Lighthouse because "It doesnt matter since no cleave"

Theres always toxic and passive agressive people. I could say that theres a certain group of people tends to be more toxic than others, but i won't... (its not who you think it is anyways)
Pretending that anything is perfect with no bad people is just always wrong. That's not how it works and it will never work, because some people dont care about some respect. Be it in RL, or in Games.